Relationship tips dating a player
Now we also have another reason to be grateful to text messaging, to tell what level our guy is at!
They’ll either run for cover or step up to a game worthy of you. She works as an analyst for a major government contracting firm. He’s the misogynistic, arrogant jerk you hate more than taxes, but, secretly, you’d bed him faster than your granny could yell “Bingo! Let’s face it: We’ve all wanted him at one time or another.When we find ourselves repeatedly targeted by players, wondering why we end up in the same kinds of dead-end relationship relationships over and over again, here are five steps we can all take to break the cycle and find the love we want and the man we need. We really need to acknowledge the fact that we’re in a cycle in order to change our habits. Save your curious energy for something constructive, like researching why you keep seeking out unhealthy relationships. Trust me, he’ll promptly move on to the next potential victim. Act confident, even when your confidence fails you—but don’t be the extreme! In both cases, we’re hopeless enough to believe we are the beneficiary of fate’s generous hand when we were really the victim of a targeted campaign perpetrated by exploiting our own perceptible cluelessness. The old “the first step is admission” saying is trite but true. In the future, as soon as the player slithers toward you, flashing that million-dollar smile that makes you blush like a school girl, run like a track star on steroids. Neither were the fifty chicks that came before you or the fifty new fools that will follow in your footsteps immediately after he leaves your bed. Neither satisfaction nor a single one of those so-called nine lives brought him back. And for goodness’ sake, don’t tell the player (of all people) how hurt and damaged you are from your past relationship. If he asks about your past relationships, tell him all of your former boyfriends were exactly like him.
With the overconfident women, the ones who knew they could get any man they wanted and let everyone else in the room know it too, he’d play a little hard-to-get, making them believe he’d succumbed to their charms when in fact he’d had set his sights on them from the first moment he’d laid eyes on them. Hate to break it to you, ladies, but the Emperor’s got new clothes. Stop thinking you’re special and that he’ll be different with you. OK, maybe to your mother and your nana, but not to him. Yes, curiosity killed the cat–and that cat was dead as a doornail. He’ll only listen long enough to unlock the mystery to getting inside your pants.
A player is usually very deceptive and manipulative.